What do you think wouldve happened?

so, back in november, i had this party with all of my friends. it was rlly late at night and we went and decided to play manhunt in teams of four. anyways, i got in a group with one of my friends, her bf, and my crush! so i told my friend to go hide with her bf (helping her out) and i got to hide with my crush. anywho, we were going up into a tree, and im kinda short, so he was helping me reach the lowest branch, and he like pushed up on my to help, but he held it longer:). anyways, he was about to get up there, but the ppl who werre loking for us started to come, so he culdnt. i just wanna know what you think wouldve happened. cuz i like get so pissed aat my self cuz we culdve kissed or something. and we culdve been dating, instead of him getting a gf 3 months later. so what do you think we wouldve done? and this is kinda 2 questinos in 1, but at another party, i told hime i liked him (we were friends for like 7 yrs) and he said that he had a gf.:( and the only reason he wouldnt date me is because his relationships would end badly, and he ends up hating his ex, and he didnt want that for us. and then this d bag in my cl comes up to me a couple weeks later and tells me that the kid i like said that before he would ever date me, he would rip his off. but i dont beleive he rlly said that. whatever . should i see if he likes me again, or just wait? sorry its so long, i just wanted to tell someone.:) and he's single now. btw were 14.